Scandals.Flings.Affairs.Infidelity.

Scandals.Flings.Affairs.Infidelity.What do these words mean or symbolise?Are you part of it?If so,why are doing this thing?

9 out of 10 couples said that those words mean negativity and betrayal.9 out of 10 couples said that those words symbolise a crime that is unforgivable.9 out of 10 couples said that Karma will soon bites back on those who are part of the philandering crusade.Im not selecting any sides but I believed when the couple that said that they are fine with scandals,flings and affairs or wat not are stupid and they will be eating their words sooner rather than later.

Humans in general can't be trusted.Be it a girl or a guy.Be it your brother or your sister.Be it your best friend or your enemy.Humans can't be trusted.So do not trust anyone except yourself.

Why am I putting trust on the forefront?Because in every relationship,trust holds the key to everything.But sadly to say,trust is a scarce resource.It's worth more than brick of gold or a carat of diamond.It's priceless but like I said earlier,it's very difficult to find trust.

I've seen first hand of the people whom are involved in this chaos and believe me that it doesn't have a good ending to it.100% foolproof.Trust me.Some people will become paranoid and end up gaining absolutely nothing and losing everything.The question is that why are people doing this even though they knew that it will not result in a good outcome?

Love?That is just bullshit to me.If love is the main concern,why would you still have a partner and then be going out with any guy or girl?If love is the main concern,why can't you just leave him or her alone to be with his partner if you know that loving a person doesnt necessarily mean that you have to be him or her.What matter most if you love him or her,all you want is for him or her to be happy no matter what.From what I've just said,correct me if Im wrong in any way.

Scandals.Flings.Affairs.Infidelity.Those words don't mean love.If you said that you are having a scandal or fling or a secret affair because you love him or her,I would say you have no idea what love means and you're talking a shitload of crap.

Fun?Yeah,that is more like it.Humans tend to break the rules and play with fire.Humans likes to have fun even if they know it's wrong.It's part of the nature.They wouldnt be any robberies,murderers and most importantly scandals,flings,secret affairs if humans follow the rules and stick by it.It does not mean that you have to sleep with him or her to constitute a scandal,if you're cheating on your partner then that contitutes secret affairs and what not.

People would then ask me if both of you are single but are having this close relationship,does it constitute scandal?My answer will be that is courting each other isn't it?Courting and having "illegal" relationships are two different things my friends.One is fine but the latter is non-excusable.

I think I've said my piece about this topic.Everything that is on my mind regarding this subject has been written on this post.Some of you may agree while others will think Im wrong.All of us are adults.We should be matured enough to know of the right and the wrong things to do.Don't you feel dirty if you are having a scandal or secret affair who do have a partner?Don't you have a sense of guilt of being the third party?

Karma Bites!!!